If you’re still trying to figure out how to get a man to like you, then you should know that there are different ways you can use the law of attraction to your advantage.
It’s simple to say: think about what you want and that’s what you’ll attract. But the truth is that the law of attraction is sometimes more complicated than it seems. You can’t just project your desire – “I want a tall man who loves me” – and two weeks later have it come your way.
To get a guy to like you, here’s how to use the law of attraction:
FOCUS ON WHAT YOU DON’T WANT
It seems like you’ve always known what you want out of life, your friends and your boyfriend. But have you ever known what you don’t want? Because when you know what you want, what you don’t like and don’t want can easily appear before your eyes.
When you daydream about a man of your own, you are aware of all the qualities you want him to have. Tall, dark-haired, a good earner, gets along well with your family and friends, loves the winter holidays as much as you do, and the list goes on. And that’s exactly how you convey your wish to the Universe.
Before long, much to your surprise, a guy comes your way (or on social media) who is 98% what you want. The dates are magical, the relationship seems to be going perfectly, until at some point some dark spots appear. It’s the little or big flaws that you forgot to point out when you were visualizing the man of your dreams.
Because when you ask for something, you have to ask in detail – with everything you want and don’t want.
WHEN A MAN SHOWS SOMETHING YOU DON’T LIKE, SAY GOODBYE.
Nothing is negotiable when it comes to the things crossed off your “NO” list. It’s not okay to overlook the fact that the guy has toxic behavior and uses vocabulary that bothers you, just because you look good on his arm and you’re so “Instagrammable” together. Just like you can’t overlook the fact that he’s a slacker (he doesn’t want to work a set schedule and finds it normal to always meet at his place or yours), but he makes you feel like a queen.
We all have flaws and qualities, it’s clear that no one is perfect, but there are some flaws you can accept and some you can’t. They will sooner or later affect the relationship and make it stop evolving. It might even affect you personally.
LOOK FORWARD AND CONTINUE SEARCHING
Every relationship and every encounter is a lesson and a blessing. Don’t ever say it was a waste of time, because in all that time, you actually had something to learn. Looking in a deeper way, you can say, “Thank you, Lord, now I know I don’t want to be with a man like that.” What a blessing!
After all, isn’t that what it’s all about when you agree to go on a date? You find out what you don’t like about a man, so you can figure out what the man you can have a healthy and happy relationship with looks like.
Finally, don’t forget to notice what you don’t like about yourself. A woman once said that she is so stressed that she ended up being exactly what she doesn’t want the man she dates to be. So be the person you want to attract! And be open! Look up from the ground and notice – you never know who’s looking at you.