Family karma is the karma that comes from your ancestors, your blood relatives, and has a huge influence on your role in your family and how you interact with your family members. It’s a whole lot of energy working on a completely abstract level.
Just think that you were born as the child of two people living under a significant spiritual burden, and it may seem that you are carrying a double burden, because both parents are resting on your shoulders. A lot of people don’t really get along with their parents, and in many cases, this is due to old energy ties with such negative content.
Thanks to reincarnation, this is no longer our first life on Earth. You have already met most of the people who make up your family in your previous lives, and you could have even decided together that you should be born again as the same family for a lifetime on Earth.
Family patterns are a very complex system of karmic relationships that can be traced all the way back to our grandparents. For example, if your grandmother was a warm-hearted person, she always helped everyone and therefore was taken advantage of many times, your grandfather was probably a grumpier person who even struggled with alcohol problems. Thus, your mother has “inherited” karmic features that may make her struggle with attention deficit, so much so that she can’t even focus on her children.
As a child of your parents, you come into the world with a DNA karma, which is associated with milder or, in some cases, very intense character traits that are different for everyone.
You are probably carrying family karma if:
- You are at the most advanced spiritual level and are much more aware than your parents and siblings.
- You have always felt different from your family, often distancing yourself from their behavior.
- Sometimes you get sick for inexplicable reasons and feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders.
- You have been involved in bizarre family affairs several times.
- You recognized the family pattern and understood it enough to change it.
How can we cut these energy bonds?
The most important step in breaking such bonds is to free up your own mind and emotions. It’s about finding out what are the things that create fear and prejudice in you as a result of your parents’ energies. If you manage to clarify these issues within yourself, you will be able to let go and forgive them, and thus you can finally get out of the energy blocks of your family.
After that, you will be able to take responsibility for yourself and become independent. You will be able to firmly say no to your parents’ fears, but at the same time you will see that they are not equally predisposed to all these negative things.
You will realize that they too are just cosmic travelers trying to fulfill their respective missions. If you have gone through the releasing process, you will feel their innocence and be able to forgive them. Remember that they always wanted the best for you, even if you didn’t always feel that way.
How can you transform family patterns?
Meditate, look deep within yourself to find out where recurring problems are rooted. If you recognize and understand the behavior patterns, you will be able to change them. This is indeed a time-consuming task, but it all starts with a firm decision: “I want to be my own master, I have my own energy and soul and I am responsible for my own karma.”