You are the only person who stands in the way of your happiness – but you have the power to make a change.
Movies, poems, and fairy tales have succeeded to make us believe that there is a soul mate for each of us, and all of us know some real-life perfect couples that make everyone green with envy.
Do you feel that you searched everywhere and did everything you could, but still did not find the person you wanted, that true soul mate with whom you could be happy for ever after? What happened?
There is a great problem that lies between you and your soul mate. The problem is a person – and that person is you. You are the only one who stands between a lonely or unhappy present and a happy future with a man who is right for you.
The truth is that you don’t have to try all kinds of techniques to attract the person you’re waiting for. You just have to work on becoming the best version of yourself.
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Therefore, the core of the issue is not finding the right partner but becoming the right partner yourself. Your soul mate will appear in your life when your soul becomes free of past damages and you can offer the purest love.
Here’s how you can attract the soul mate you’ve always dreamed of:
1. Give up past resentments
If you don’t give up your past grudges, your inner development will always be stifled by these. You must forgive, forget, and give up the past so as to free yourself from all the negative emotions and energies that affect your soul. If you are not ready to end a painful chapter and move on with your life, the right partner will not be ready for you either.
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2. Heal yourself emotionally and mentally
We all have scars from our past which influence our present very much, and which should not be buried in our hearts, as they will come to the surface once we have the chance to become truly happy and destroy everything we have built.
First and foremost, you need to heal emotionally and mentally. Talk to a psychologist or psychotherapist, do journaling or meditate, as such activities will help you get rid of your past wounds for good.
3. Work on repairing your bad habits
Each of us has a few not so desirable qualities. The first step to improving your character is to admit that something is not exactly right with you. Your soul mate will not come to fix your character flaws. On the contrary, you will continue to attract people with the same character flaws as yours.
You should work on self-improvement and building good character traits such as honesty, calmness, and kindness.
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4. Develop the desired qualities of your ideal partner
You must possess all the great qualities you want in your soul mate. Are you the person you want so much in your life? If you are not, all you have to do is become the person you would like to be with, the person you would like to spend the rest of your life with.
5. Vibrate at a high frequency
If you are cynical, pessimistic, negative, angry or have a fierce temperament, you will attract people with the same level of energy. To avoid this, always try to do things that bring you happiness, joy and peace.
Look for ways to improve your outlook on life, as this is the best way to get rid of the obstacles that stand in the way of finding your partner.
You are the only person who stands in the way of you and your soul mate, but you have the power to change that.